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Eduardo & Jennifer are hopeful adoptive parents from New Jersey waiting to adopt a baby.

If you are pregnant and considering placing your child for adoption, please read the following Dear Birthmother Letter.

Congratulations!
Adoption in Progress.

Dear Birthmother Thank you very much for taking the time to read our profile. Although we have not met, we do know that you have tremendous courage and strength in your ability to make such an important decision for your child. We wish you peace and comfort through this journey. We hope that our profile gives you a sense of who we are and what we hold near and dear. This child will be the first grandchild on both sides of the family, and everyone is excited to welcome a new baby into their lives. They are anxious for us to begin the next phase of our lives together, and they know that we have a lot of love to give. We are honored to be considered as parents of your child. We are hoping that through the miracle of adoption, our dream will come true.

Eddie and I met at a lounge 7 years ago when I noticed him and all his friends dancing. As soon as my friends and I began talking to them, we were immediately attracted to the British accent they all had. Eddie and I instantly clicked and I remember him quizzing me on British humor and TV shows. I must have passed because we spoke for a couple of weeks over the phone and then we finally had our first date. While waiting for our dinner reservation, we went to have a drink at the bar when we noticed a group of his friends sitting across from us. Boys being boys, they were giving Eddie a hard time and telling me funny stories about him. I knew Eddie was something special because he took it all with genuine laughter and warmth. During dinner, our conversation flowed so smoothly, almost like we had known each other forever. He has a wonderful sense of humor and his laugh is infectious. Everyone should be so lucky to have a person like Eddie in his or her life. He is a thoughtful, compassionate and loving man. I feel very blessed that he chose to spend the rest of his life with me.

Jenn is such a positive person and really brings happiness into the lives of people she touches (she's also extremely beautiful). In addition, she's a great organizer and creates an itinerary for all our vacations (down to the last detail).
Jenn always finds a positive spin on any situation - no matter how difficult it may be. She brings me so much happiness and I feel lucky each morning I wake up and kiss her before I leave for work.
In summary, Jenn is an extremely caring, loving wife who will be an excellent mother - of that I have absolutely no doubt. I feel privileged to have someone so special as my wife and am looking forward to starting our family. We've both been through a lot trying to conceive naturally, but for Jenn it's been especially difficult, as she so desperately wants to become a mother

We have both been raised in families that were founded on strong values and also provided a wonderful loving environment. They support us in our decision to begin a family and look forward to being grandparents for the first time.

Jenn's Family
We are a very close-knit family. My parents have been married for almost 40 years and have instilled wonderful ethics and values in me and my sister. My sister is 4 years younger than me and we have a very good relationship. She is my best friend. We all live within 30 minutes of each other and speak at least 3 times a week and see each other 3-4 times a month. Memories of my childhood are filled with fun, laughter and love. We always had traditions of cutting down our Christmas tree, and to this day Eddie and I continue the tradition. I find tradition is something that tends to fade away over time so I made the decision that will never happen with my family. I have begun to pick up family traditions on both sides of the family, from Polish to British and Swiss.

Eddie's Family
Eddie was raised in Greater London with two siblings with whom he is very close. His parents worked very hard at teaching values such as fairness and honesty. He was raised Catholic and attended church every Sunday. His parents taught him to value faith and religion. Eddie has many good memories from his childhood, such as visiting relatives in Switzerland and playing on their farm. He also received the opportunity to visit many different countries with his father, who oversaw a Spanish airline.

Eddie and I fly to England to visit his mum and siblings at least once or twice a year. At that time, his father will fly up from his home in Buenos Aires to spend time with us also.

During this process we have thought a lot about what values and experiences we can offer a child. Once parents, we will look back on how loved and fortunate we were and will give the same love to our child. It is very important that children know they are loved, especially when they make a mistake. We believe that a child should hear "I love you" each and every day. They should also know they are supported in their decisions.
We also want our child to learn from his or her mistakes but will guide them in the right direction to help make the best decision possible. We believe that if rules are broken, there must be an appropriate consequence for the action. This discipline will be done without anger and will use positive reinforcement.
We look forward to the good times but also the difficult times. These times can be used to teach our child what is right and wrong. Many times the best way to deal with a situation is to "live and learn."
When we think about parenting, we know the most appropriate thing to value is family. We would instill a sense of family and let the child know that there are many relatives who love them.

We are very grateful to have this opportunity to share a little piece of our world with you. We are extremely excited at the prospect of becoming parents. We hope that we have been able to answer some of your questions and give you the comfort of knowing that your child will be loved unconditionally. Please know that we hold you in our prayers during this difficult time and only wish you the best.