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The adoption experience is different for each person. Because of this, there is a myriad of tools and resources available to you, no matter which side of the adoption triad you find yourself. For some the adoption process is long, arduous, and incredibly difficult. That's one reason it is so important to make use of the adoption tools and resources that can help you through this journey.
On the following pages, you'll find more information about using positive adoption language and creating an adoption workbook. These are just two of the many tools and resources that you can use.
Adoption Workbook: This workbook is a great tool for adoptive parents and birth parents alike. It guides you through the sometimes rigorous adoption process: what to expect, what to do next, and so on. These steps can include physical steps as well as emotional steps and milestones. It can be a guide on how to help your family accept your decision, how to accept your own decision, and how to heal emotionally.
Positive Adoption Language: Because the adoption process affects each member of the triad differently, it is important to use positive adoption language. The terms of positive adoption language will differ with each person, depending on their adoption experience. Empathy is paramount. If you aren't sure which terms are appropriate for that particular situation, ask the other person. Show them that you are concerned and you respect them.
If you need additional resources, consider joining a support group. This is a great way to not only make contacts and friends but hear someone's story. Their story and their experience can help you. And, your experience can help others. It is a small community-like setting that encourages trust, hope, and participation. If you need a more one-on-one experience, consider seeing a counselor or therapist. S/he can help you delve deeper into your emotions, your feelings, and your experience.
Ask your local hospital for resources. They should have lists of support groups, recommended counselors, or websites that can help you when you need support, because support is important when adopting or placing. Surround yourself with trusted loved ones. They will support, comfort, and uplift you. They love you and they want to be there for you. Let them.
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