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Kristin & Steve
We just had an amazing experience. We received a call from an agency who saw our profile here. They asked if we were interested in a month old baby boy with down syndrome. And to make a long story short, a week later, we've adopted sweet baby Max! (3 months on PP) more ...
Talking to Your Family about Adoption
Experiencing an unplanned pregnancy can be difficult. Talking with your family about your decision to place your child with an adoptive family can make it an even harder experience. As difficult as it is to talk with your family about adoption, it is important that you do. Because this can be such a sensitive topic, some soon-to-be-parents aren't sure where to begin or how to appropriately broach the topic with their loved ones.
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One reason it is important to talk to your family about adoption is because they can become your support system. In order to enlist their help and support during this difficult time, they need to fully understand your situation and the next steps you want to take. Remember that even though you're confiding in your family and close friends, it is important to know that this is ultimately your and your partner's decision. You'll need to make the decision that you feel is best for both you and the baby. It needs to be a decision with which you can live and continue to progress in life.
Talking with your family about adoption can be difficult and stressful. But it is imperative that you do talk with them. Here are some things to keep in mind as you prepare to talk with your family and friends about your situation and your decision:
- Honesty: This is listed first because it is the most important for all the parties involved. Be honest with your family. In return, you should expect them to be honest with you. And most importantly, you need to be completely honest with yourself. This can be a difficult thing to accomplish if your unplanned pregnancy is traumatic or stressful. Allow your family and close friends to be active participants in your life. Honesty is the first step.
- Trust: After honesty, trust is very important. You've opened up and shared your situation, your fears, and your concerns. Now it's time to trust them and their input and insights. Trusting their input doesn't mean that you will do whatever they say. It means that you trust that they are trying to help you because they love and want the best for you. You also need to trust yourself. You have the ability to make an informed decision. If you need advice from others, get it. And never be ashamed or embarrassed.
- Open-mindedness: You'll receive advice and input from many sources. Keep an open mind and consider everything that's said. Your family and friends love you. They want you to be happy and successful. They want to help you in any way they can. And this includes giving you advice. Take your time to consider all your options. Once you're ready, make the decision. After your decision is made, share it with your family.
Making an informed decision will empower you; you are strong. You can make it through this difficult time. You'll make the decision that works best for you and your specific situation. Take all the time and remember that help is around you. Take advantage of it.