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Tips for New Dads
Fatherhood is a fascinating journey of wonder and amazement- and let's face it there is a bit of fear as well. You have likely spent the past nine months as a spectator. You were supportive through the morning sickness, the tears, and the joy that all came along with the miracle of life. Maybe you spent hours walking through aisles and aisles of frilly pastel bedding looking for the perfect crib set. Whatever your role was- it is going to change a bit in the months and years following the birth of your baby. So read ahead to find out some tips to make your journey a bit smoother.
- Be patient with yourself and the new baby. There are now "daddy boot camps" all over the country that will help you prepare for the first few weeks of your baby arrival. They will cover everything from feeding, clothing, bathing, and diapering. It is important to remember that your baby is learning what it means to be in the outside world, just as you are adjusting to your role as a parent. Tears will be shed from both sides over feeding, changing, and sleep- and this is normal. If your wife is breastfeeding, take an active role in diaper changing. It is a great way to bond with your new baby and relieve a bit of stress off of mom.
- Find others in your situation. Bonding with other new fathers is a great way to relieve some of the stress of new parenthood. Having someone that understands the sleepless nights and 2am feedings will be invaluable in the weeks and months ahead.
- Reconnect with your partner. It can be overwhelming to go from lovers to parents- and the romance may fall to the wayside the first few months after the baby comes home. The key is to pretend like you are dating again. Often times new moms have to prepare emotionally as well as physically for a sexual relationship- so spend some time tending to her emotional needs. This includes discussing thoughts and feelings, and having togetherness time. Sex will fall into place naturally.
- RELAX- and enjoy your new baby!
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