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George & Fay are hopeful adoptive parents from New York waiting to adopt a baby.

If you are pregnant and considering placing your child for adoption, please read the following Dear Birthmother Letter.

Dear Birthmother, Hello,
We are Fay and George.

We recognize and respect the difficulty in making your decision. We pray you make the right decision for you and your family.

There are so many things in our hearts and minds that we want to convey to you. Most of all, we want you and your family to know that we will love your child with all of our hearts.

We always longed to become parents and your child will always be loved. We will nurture and love your child unconditionally. We will teach your child to love himself/herself and others, and to follow their dreams and talents.

About Us

We knew each other through the community since about the age of fourteen. We saw each other at various functions and dances, and George went to school with my best friend. We were friends and started dating when I was 18 and George was 19. I took George to my High School Prom. We dated for 5 years while George was going to school and had a large wedding with 380 people in attendance. George has an extremely large family. We have been happily married for 13 years. And in those 13 years our love and respect for one another has grown stronger with each passing year. We have a lot in common. We had very similar upbringings, similar values, beliefs, and family traditions, and we want to continue them with a family of our own. We are supportive of each other and deal with stresses through good communication, kindness, and understanding.

We have undergone numerous infertility treatments with no success. And now we have chosen to move forward with adoption. We have resolved our feelings about infertility and are happy to become parents through adoption. We are financially secure, which will allow Fay to be a stay-at-home mom. We are an active couple who are well established in our lives together.

On weekends we like to go out to dinner, if we are not going to a family function like an engagement, wedding, anniversary, birthday etc. Friday's we like to have company over since George is home by 3:00 from work. We love to entertain at home. We spend the summer weekends at Fay's parents’ vacation beach house. George's parents also own a summer house nearby which is always full of people. We always visit to see what’s going on. We were very fortunate as children to spend the summers playing, going to the beach, fishing and exploring Mother Nature. We would love our children to have the same experiences. We host an annual softball game for friends and family every year on Labor Day. We barbeque and catch up with all our friends and family. We love to travel. We go on at least one vacation per year. In May we went to the Bahamas, where we stayed in Atlantis. We had a great time. What a great place to go with children. The aquarium was spectacular.

George through Fay's eyes

George is a loving, caring, giving person with a good sense of humor. He is self- employed and has a very successful practice. From the time we started dating we have been the best of friends. He is always willing to help his friends and family whenever he is needed. He has been a great uncle. He loves to teach the boys to play baseball, basketball, and football, and maybe someday golf. When he was a boy, he was very athletic and was always on a team. He has been a great son to his parents, a terrific husband, and I know he will make a great father. That is one of the reasons why I married him over 13 years ago.

Fays interests

I love to read all sorts of books, cook, and bake for all occasions. I also love crafts, and love to paint. I sponge painted our family room. Everyone who sees it thinks I hired a professional. I love to tell them I did it. You name it, I’ll try to paint it. In the summer I plant flowers and herbs. I also love to decorate. I decorate for Christmas, Easter, 4th of July, Halloween, and Thanksgiving. Our friends love to come over and see how the decor in the house has changed.

Fay through George's eyes

Fay is without question my best friend. She is the most understanding person you will ever meet. She is a great listener. I know if I am having some issues at work or in my personal life, Fay will be there to listen, and to offer advice, and she is usually on the money. She is loving, and caring, and always willing to help a person in need. She is incredible with her nephews and nieces and with our godchildren. They all get sooooo excited to see her. I think it’s her great smile and disposition that tells people, I'm here for you. People feel so comfortable in her presence. I knew when I married Fay she would make a great mother because of these traits.

George's interests

My greatest hobby is just coming home after a hard day's work. Home is where I am able to enjoy being with Fay, watch my movies, and listen to my music. Home is also where there is always a project to do. Whether it's cleaning the garage, fixing something on the computer, rewiring the stereo system or painting a room. I look forward to the weekends in the summer where we get to go to our parents' summer homes, and we meet up with friends and family. This is where I find the time to play golf, and maybe go fishing.

Family Family is very important to us. We both come from very close-knit families. From the time we got married, we have been hosting Christmas at our home, so the whole family can be together. Since then, our family has gotten much bigger. George was the first from his siblings to get married. He is also the oldest of four. George has one brother, and two sisters. They have all gotten married and have children. His brother has a daughter, and is currently trying to have a second child. His sisters each have a son and daughter. They all live within 20 minutes from our home, and so do George's parents.

Fay has one sister, who is older than Fay. She is married and lives within walking distance from our house. She has 3 boys. She had one son, and immediately thereafter got pregnant again with twins (identical twins). We were dating when the twins were born, and we would baby sit them so Penny and Teddy could get some alone time. The whole family would pitch in because it's not easy having 3 boys in diapers. We spend a lot of time with them. Fay's parents also live nearby. They love to come over and stay with us a couple of days. They are impatiently waiting for us to adopt so they can be grandparents again.

We spend as much time as possible with our nieces and nephews. George taught the twins to play basketball during the summer at my parents’ summer home. They are currently ball players on their high school teams. George is very proud. Now he is trying to convince them they should learn how to play golf. We have movie nights at our house and make popcorn. The kids take turns picking a movie. We have the biggest selection of Disney movies. George loves to buy DVD'S. We attend all the kids’ birthday parties. Our dream is to one day have a birthday party for our child.

We have lots of friend who live in our neighborhood, all of which have children. We spend a lot time with them, hanging out, barbequing, watching movies.

We have three godchildren, all boys. We feel blessed. It is truly an honor to be chosen to baptize someone child. We take the responsibility seriously. Family is so important to us. You can be rest assured that your child will be blessed and showered with unconditional love. They will grow up in a secure and stable family environment, with an atmosphere full of love, compassion, and happiness.

Our family and friends are very supportive of our decision to adopt a baby, they know firsthand how great we are to their children and what wonderful people we are.

Our Neighborhood We live in a one family Hi-ranch in the suburbs. We have 4 bedrooms, a living room, dining room, kitchen, breakfast area, family room with fireplace and a room we call the entertainment room, where we have a big screen TV, a music system, and a pool table. We bought the house 4 years ago because we knew it would be a great place to raise a child. The house needed a lot of work and we did the majority of it before we moved in. All we need to do now is paint and decorate the kid’s room. Fay is going to love doing that.

We live in a wonderful community in which to raise children. Our community is very safe and there are many families with children living nearby. The neighbors all look out for each other. The school district in which we live in is known for its excellence. The elementary school, junior high school and high school are all nearby. The community has a large library, Botanical Gardens, parks and several playgrounds. We also live close to the beach, movie theaters, ice skating rinks, roller skating rinks and bowling alleys. The local community center has pools, playgrounds, a daycare and community groups and clubs. There are several malls and grocery stores nearby and excellent hospitals and medical facilities. We have a safe and lovely home in a great community in which to raise children.

We have a Yorkshire terrier named Pepper.
We bought Pepper when she was a puppy over 14 years ago. Fay walked into a pet store and instantly fell in love with Pepper. Pepper cried when she thought Fay was going to leave her. Pepper will turn 15 in October. Pepper grew up with all of our nieces and nephews and is very good with children. Everyone who meets Pepper loves her.

Thank You We feel honored that you have taken the time to view our profile.

Your child will always know, throughout their life, how special you are & that the decision you made was of love, (the greatest gift).

We hope that you have gotten to know us a little bit. We would love to get to know you.

Please feel free to call us toll free at 1800 267-8353 pin 00

Whatever you decide, we wish you peace and happiness. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Love,

George & Fay