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Olivier & Janice are hopeful adoptive parents from Nebraska waiting to adopt a baby.

If you are pregnant and considering placing your child for adoption, please read the following Dear Birthmother Letter.

Dear Birthparent(s) Words cannot express how humbling this experience is for us because we can never know how difficult this decision is for you. Our names are Olivier and Janice. Our goal within the next few pages is to describe ourselves and our family to you. Please know that we have the utmost respect for what you are doing, for your child and for yourself.

About us JANICE:
I am 36 and was born to two loving parents. My father has always been my hero. He made sure that we were provided for and has been available when I needed him. He has since passed away. My mom is my closest friend we talk every Sunday for hours. We love to shop together and talk about life in general. My mom was a homemaker so I had the benefit of having her close daily, and that was a great support for me. My Mom has always been my cheerleader. I was baptized when I was 17 and later served a mission. Both changed my life forever in the sense that they gave me purpose here on earth and the knowledge that I am not alone. After I returned home from my mission, I became a live-in nanny for 2 and ½ years for two adopted children, Emilee and Tim. I knew those children belonged in that family. I continue to call the kids for their birthdays and visit them when possible; and of course, I met my wonderful husband and got married. I also felt that I would be given the opportunity to adopt children in the future because I had the experience of being a nanny with Emilee and Tim. On October 5 of 03 my husband and I had the wonderful opportunity of adopting our first child. We named her Natalie. She is incredible. It has been amazing to watch her grow up. She is kind, generous, and she loves the Savior with all of her hart. Natalie has our hearts forever.
I have many interests: such as cross-stitching, writing poetry and short stories, singing, cooking, astronomy, and photography. Overall, my greatest passion is learning which is why I attend college. I study English Literature and I am almost finished. I am a stay at home mom with my daughter Natalie because I know it is the right thing to do and because my husband’s career has made it possible.

OLIVIER:
I was born in France and came to America as a child where I grew up with my parents and my brother. We still speak French in their home. From my father, I learned how to accomplish any task I put my mind to. My mom devoted herself to raising us and taught me to love and sacrifice. My brother is a real estate agent and is fun loving and full of energy. Because of their example, I have known since my teenage years that I wanted to be a husband and father. In my early 20’s, I learned about Jesus Christ, converted and served a mission to share with others the joy I found. I was as happy as I had ever been in my life. Upon my return, I met my love, Janice, and life became even better. She supported me through many years at school where I earned an MBA and completed my Ph.D. I am a college professor because I love to teach, and to encourage others. It also provides us enough money and free time so I can devote myself to my family. In my spare time, I enjoy singing, woodcarving, and using computers. Natalie has touched my heart. I love watching her learn and experience the world for the first time. Many afternoons, I come home early so I can play in the yard with her. It’s my favorite part of the day.

OUR MARRIAGE, JANICE's EXPERIENCE
My husband and I have been married for 11 years. Words are not adequate to describe my marriage with Olivier, but I will try to relay the emotions I feel. Marriage with Olivier is exciting and wonderful. When I met Olivier I noticed that it was different with him; I wanted to spend every waking moment with him. I trusted him with my heart and knew that I found my match. After 11 years I am as happy as I was in the beginning, maybe more so. Olivier is my closest friend and we have a strong marriage where we discuss everything. We don’t yell; we interpret with love and we can say anything to each other.

OUR MARRIAGE, OLIVIER's EXPERIENCE:
We fell in love by sharing our dreams, discussing the gospel, and serving together. Our respect for each other has grown stronger with each year. Janice is not only my best friend, but also my support, my confidant, and my joy. Many people say that we are still on our honeymoon and in many ways we still are. We hold hands, and giggle frequently. Unlike newlyweds, our strength also comes from the depth of our understanding about each other’s joys, needs, wants and weaknesses. I am committed to my wife and my family.

ABOUT NATALIE AND ADOPTION:
Natalie is 3 years old. She is our amazing little blessing. She is a calm child with a great personality, and she is very smart. We love her so much that words will never be adequate enough to express that love. Natalie’s adoption story is unique. Cathy is her birth mother’s name. When we met her, she was 41 yeas of age and the single mother of 7 children. Natalie was to be her 8th child. We respect and honor her for the sacrifice she made on Natalie’s behalf.

Our Desire for a Family We are ready to expand our family again. As a couple, we enjoy talking, watching movies, learning, traveling and exploring. While we are happy the way we are now with our amazing daughter Natalie, we believe that another child will add to our family. For us another baby is like the missing piece of a puzzle. Unfortunately, we haven’t been able to have children, but we know that with God all things are possible. Since Janice’s nanny experience, she has had the feeling that we would have the opportunity to adopt. When she suggested adoption, it felt right and was the way Heavenly Father intends for us to become parents. Adoption is a joy for us. It makes us happy. We love each other so much as a couple and we understand that we can love our children with all our hearts. It brings us great joy to ponder what life will be like with two children to love. We picture our family learning, loving and playing together. We also want to encourage our children to better themselves and to enjoy life.

Our Promise to You We promise your baby unconditional love and support in all of his or her dreams and life decisions. Your baby will know its adoption story and will understand the strength, love and bravery of your choice. Deciding who best can provide for your child is a difficult and important decision. The distinctive qualities we offer your child are an international flair, a strong educational emphasis, an open atmosphere of honesty and the knowledge that nothing in life is impossible.

May the Lord bless you during this time of decision.
Olivier and Janice