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Wayne & Nancy are hopeful adoptive parents from New Jersey waiting to adopt a baby.

If you are pregnant and considering placing your child for adoption, please read the following Dear Birthmother Letter.

Welcome... We realize this is a life-changing experience for you. We will listen to you unconditionally, without taking you for granted if you email us or call me.

We hope to answer some things you wonder about, in our letter...

Wayne and I met while I lived in Florida during one of the many trips he made to visit his family. Our mutual friend introduced us to each other...& we just clicked! We talked and laughed for hours whenever we saw each other. It was as if we had known each other for years! For a while, we commuted back and forth and then I moved to New Jersey.

We played, we laughed, we grew to understand each other, and most of all... we loved each other... we married in Jan 2005. .

We had the heart, mind and compassion to become parents and raise our children...we hoped for two so they could grow up together. We unsuccessfully tried on our own. After many infertility treatments, God was with us..... Joseph Aidan was born in May 2005. He is our first miracle. I had an emergency hysterectomy almost two years ago.

We hope for another miracle…to connect with a loving birth mother or birth parents who will place thier baby with us. We will love both of our children equally as they learn how they each came to us. Our younger son or daughter will grow to understand about his or her birth parents in loving ways.

Our Home and community life... We moved into our 5 bedroom new home so our family would have room to grow. We imagine Joseph and our younger son or daughter bringing their friends home for dinner, sleep-overs....

We picked a small cozy town not far from New York City, where Wayne works. We have a large family room that Joseph loves to play in with his many toys! This room will be filled with new toys and gifts for baby. We imagine watching Joseph play games with his little brother or sister.

Joseph often asks if we can have another baby. He will be a caring big brother! He takes his stuffed animals and pretends to gently feed them. Joseph is great with his baby who is only months old. when he first saw him....he kissed his little hands and wanted to hold him with my help.

We will transform the entertaninment room into a computer, game, and family room, where all friends will be welcome, as our children grow up. I hope our home will be the meeting place for our kids and their friends, just like it was when I was growing up.

Our town has one of the highest rated school system, and is extremely family oriented. We live just near the elementary school that our children will attend. I'll walk Joseph to school in the mornings....it will be so much fun to see the face of our younger son or daughter smiling and waving their big brother Joseph off to school....and then it's time for us to go home for story time, lunch, and more while Joseph is in class.

I’m lucky that I can stay home. I will stay home with our new baby just as I've truly enjoyed taking care of Joseph....playing games, teaching him new things, watching him play with other kids, and watching him grow. Our days are filled with activities that Joseph enjoys....music classes, tumbling classes, and an exercise class called Movin’ Moms. Joseph loves his pre-school, just around the corner from our home. He plays with other children his age and is learning to share through this experience. I taught Joseph a bit of sign language! Now, more experienced and comfortable, I can hardly wait to do it become mom again to our baby boy or girl! I am so excited to discover what our new baby will grow to enjoy.

OUR DAILY LIFE...

I cook traditional Italian food for our family and friends. Wayne , Joseph, and I have a family dinner together at 6:30 every night. After dinner, the boys play with all of Joesph's musical instruments, and other toys. After winding down, it's bath time, and then spend at least 30 minutes reading together. Getting the chance to read with Joseph is Wayne's favorite part of the day before I put Joseph to bed. Once our new baby arrives, our daily activities will be twice as special as he or she makes her presence known with nursery rhymes and late night bottle time. blend into our family, exactly as if he or she were meant to be there with us.

When Wayne works around the house, Joseph follows along with his toy tool kit. Wayne is a big kid at heart....loves being outdoors and sports. He enjoys teaching Joseph about sports and music, and takes him to Yankees games. He absolutely cannot wait to create a special bond with his younger son or daughter when we adopt.

Exploring the world with our children is a goal. Joseph absolutely loves to travel with us; we take him everywhere! In the past three years, he has been to California, Florida, New Hampshire, St. John’s Island in the Caribbean, Puerto Rico, France, Italy, and Spain! We also have a beautiful weekend home in The Pocono’s area of Pennsylvania. It is a community with a large lake for boating and swimming, a mountain for winter snow skiing, a golf course, playgrounds, and an arts & crafts center...... perfect for family weekend getaways.

We cannot wait for our younger son for daughter to enjoy all of these wonderful experiences with us. We make it so much fun when we travel, and always think of the kids. We pack treats and games, up-grade our tickets when we fly to have more room for fun, and make sure to have lots of kid-friendly activities planned to keep everybody entertained.

WAYNE AS THE PROVIDER...

Wayne owns his own business in New York City, where he works. It is a third generation family Printing and Display company that creates most of the signage for the Broadway shows and events. His clients love him and he is so well-respected in this industry that it makes me incredibly proud. Owning his own business, Wayne also has the flexibility to make his own schedule, which is great for our family.

Meet our extended family… Wayne’s family is great. His mom lives very close to us, so we are able to spend a lot of time together. She is like a second mother to me, and she is crazy about Joseph! Both of our Father’s have passed away... we remember them as Joseph is named after both. Wayne also has 2 sisters and 2 nieces, who live in Florida.

We get together as much as possible, especially around the holidays when we have big family celebrations! Our home is the meeting place for everyone. So at Thanksgiving, Christmas, and Birthdays (and even on those special days that we want to get together!) we come together.... to enjoy one another’s company. We cook, we play games (Charades is our favorite), and we sit around dining room table for hours! We always have a full house!

My mother, Maria, lives in Philadelphia and visits as often as she can. She is such an incredible and giving person, I truly think of her as an angel. I have two brothers, and one sister Linda. My sister has 2 beautiful children whom I helped raise. My mother, sister, and niece are my best friends. Our family is unbelievably close, which is so rare these days. We talk to one another everyday. We shop for each other .We help each other out in anyway we can. We provide such a strong support system for one another. I know that they will all join us to help us raise our new son or daughter. They can’t wait to have another new family member when we adopt!

Dreams for the future.. Our younger son and daughter will be welcomed in our home filled with it's own rythym that he or she will add light and more meaning to.


Our hearts and minds are ready to unconditionally love and provide all that our future child will need while growing up. Raising our two children will absolutely complete our family. Our children will grow understanding that coming to our family by adoption is just as loving as coming to our familiy biologically.

What are your dreams and wishes?

Please share your thoughts with us as you think over your choices. We will be caring of your feelings as you get to know us.


Send us a message or call me, Nancy at 1-866-898-0208

Sincerely,
Nancy and Wayne