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Jeffrey & Donna are hopeful adoptive parents from New Jersey waiting to adopt a baby.

If you are pregnant and considering placing your child for adoption, please read the following Dear Birthmother Letter.

Welcome Thank you for reading our letter and we understand this may be a confusing time for you. Since you are trying to make the right choices in finding a good home for your child you must be a caring and loving person. We are a caring and loving couple who would be honored if you would allow us to adopt your child.

Our Lives Together Donna has lived in New Jersey all of her life. Jeff is from Pittsburgh and moved to New Jersey a year before he met Donna. We met through a mutual friend and immediately knew we were right for each other. Donna fell in love with Jeff because he is a very intelligent person who makes her laugh and is easy to get along with. Jeff fell in love with Donna because she laughs a lot and enjoys everything in life. Our wedding was a beautiful affair with a weekend’s worth of activities so we could spend lots of time with our friends and family. We went to Disney for part of our honeymoon because Jeff had never been there. While at the parks we envisioned what it would be like to be there with our children. After Disney, we went on a fun-filled cruise to the Caribbean.

We live in a fantastic town with a top rated school system. Our community has many activities for children including playgrounds, parks, a pool, an exceptional library and lots of children and dogs to play with. We have a female dog named Coco. She is very special to us and everyone loves her.

We lead an active lifestyle. We enjoy riding bicycles, going to the movies, dining out, taking vacations and spending time with friends and family. Jeff also enjoys collecting sports memorabilia and listening to music, while Donna also enjoys shopping with her girlfriends.

Both of us believe in volunteer work to help make our community a better place to live. Jeff serves as the President of our homeowner’s association and he is a member of our local Lion’s Club. Donna is a member of our town’s Woman’s Club and she volunteers at a Family Shelter.

We also believe in education and seeking out fulfilling jobs that allow us to keep family as the focus of life. Donna graduated from a business institute and worked as a secretary for 10 years. A few years ago Donna decided to pursue her dream of becoming a Realtor. Donna is currently a full-time Realtor and works from home. Once we become parents Donna’s job will allow her to remain a stay-at-home mom. Jeff always dreamed of becoming a lawyer (and more) and he has graduate degrees in business, law and a Masters Degree in Taxation. Jeff works as a consultant from home and his flexible schedule will allow him to be a stay-at-home dad. Our career paths have put us in the fortunate position of being able to provide financial security for our children while at the same time having the opportunity for both of us to be full-time, hands-on parents.

Our Family & Friends Jeff has an older sister, Michele, who is married with three children. They live in Boston and we see them often. We are also very close with Jeff’s cousin Mike, who lives in California and his cousin Mindy, who lives in Philadelphia. Mike and Mindy are both married with children of their own. We speak with Mike and Mindy several times each week and we are so close to them they are more like Jeff’s siblings than cousins. Even though they live far away we see Mike and Mindy several times each year. We also visit Jeff’s family in Florida at least once a year and make it a priority to attend all family reunions. This is very important to us, as both of Jeff’s parents are deceased. Jeff has a large extended family so when family reunions take place its common to see 50 or more of Jeff’s relatives at one time. Our Florida trips are very special to us because we are able to see Jeff’s Aunt Janet, Uncle Lenny and their son, Mitchell. Aunt Janet and Uncle Lenny are very special people who have become surrogate parents to Jeff and we love them very much.

Donna has 2 older siblings who are married. Her sister, Randi, has one son and her brother, Alan, has two stepchildren and a new baby daughter. We enjoy spending time with them when we get together. Donna’s father passed away when she was an infant but Donna is very close to her mother. We are also very close with Donna’s Aunt Sylvia, and her children. They all live close to us so we get to see them regularly for dinner and family gatherings.

Our Dream of Becoming Parents We are so excited about adopting a child! A child to love is the only thing missing from our lives and would help complete our family. We have wanted to be parents for a long time and we believe that adoption is the answer to our prayers. We have the support of all of our friends and family and they will happily welcome a new baby into their lives. Having supportive friends and family has made our decision to adopt a child very comforting and a happy time in our lives.

We will love your child unconditionally. We will support your child so that she/he has the freedom to grow and mature into a loving and respectful person. We are fortunate to have the ability to provide for all of your child's needs including a college education. We want to help provide the foundation for your child by providing love and opportunities - opportunities for education as well as extracurricular activities.

We will be caring of your feelings if you decide to call us. Having a trusting relationship with the birthmother (or birthparents) is extremely important to us and we would tell our future child anything their birthmother (or birthparents) would like us to tell them.

We know that nothing can be more difficult and more precious than to be able to make the best decision for your child. Please feel free to call us toll free at 1-888-271-9621.

Warmly,
Donna & Jeff