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Tyler & Jill are hopeful adoptive parents from Arizona waiting to adopt a baby.

If you are pregnant and considering placing your child for adoption, please read the following Dear Birthmother Letter.

Dear birthmother,

We wish we could say something that would comfort you, that would take away the confusion, the worry, and the pain you must be experiencing. We can't imagine how your heart must be breaking as you view profiles, planning to place your baby in someone else's home. Surely this will be one of the hardest things you'll ever do. We're so grateful for your courage in making this most difficult decision. The only comfort that we can try and offer is that when you find the family that is supposed to raise your baby, you will know, and you will feel the comfort of a loving Heavenly Father giving you assurance in your decision. If that family is us, we will be so humbled and honored to raise your baby in our home and love her the way she deserves.

We know that your decision to place your baby for adoption is a decision entirely motivated by love. That love inspires us to open our hearts, our lives, and our arms to you and your baby and be part of this beautiful experience. Our three sons pray each day for their little sister. They can't wait to hold her, bathe her, love her, kiss her, and play with her. We can't wait to teach them how to be stalwart older brothers that protect her from the evils of the world. They will be amazing brothers to her.

We are already so grateful for you. We know that this unselfish decision will bless us with the opportunity of a lifetime and we'll never forget the sacrifice that you made for your baby and for us.

You may be wondering why we're looking to adopt if we already have 3 children of our own. Well, a couple of years ago, Jill had some medical problems that resulted in her having to have a hysterectomy. When that episode in our life was over, we assumed we were done having children. We were grateful for our three boys. They are a huge blessing! How could we ask for more? No more diapers, potty training, sleepless nights - we were good, our family was complete! But, the Lord works in mysterious ways. We both began to have a yearning in our hearts towards a little girl that we could not bring into this world. Of course, that creates some confusion and some pain. How are we supposed to bring a baby girl into our family if we physically can't? After a lot of prayer and fasting, we knew adoption was the next step for us. So, bring on the diapers, the sleepless nights, the spit-up, and everything else. We can't wait!

Our promise to you is that we will raise and cherish your baby with all of our love and devotion - the same love that is prompting you to break your own heart in order to choose what's best for your daughter. The challenges and decisions you are facing right now must seem insurmountable, probably the hardest decision you will make in your life. Our hearts truly break when we think of the challenges facing you. We recognize the strength, selflessness, and courage you have, as you consider finding a home for your precious baby. We recognize that strength and promise to make sure that the little spirit you are bringing into this world will have the life you dream of for her. Through our love and commitment, she will find her way home. There aren't words to express the love and gratitude in our hearts for blessing our family with your precious gift.

We'd love to get to know you.

Love,
Tyler and Jill